So coming when called is not a sign or test of love and devotion. Or, a mother hugs and kisses her child, and the kid happily hugs and kisses back, and then squirms out of her arms. Cats, like people, have their boundaries. Cats form strong attachment to their owners. There are many known cases where the owner had to leave, or died, and the cat showed signs of distress. They go into hiding. They even refuse to eat. Some perfectly healthy cats have had such a strong attachment that they simply died after the loss of their owner, the only cause seeming to be a broken heart.
Again, cats have boundaries and they are not terribly forgiving. But they are loyal, as shown by the long journeys many have taken to return home. But selfless?
Concern for others? Our staff and myself are all dedicated to providing the highest quality care in the comfort of your own home, and we look forward to helping make a positive impact in meeting the complex needs of your pets! I wish I had read this article sooner.
I had a kitty for 15 years. I was under the impression that cats were independent and liked being alone. I thought that they may want attention, but they did not need it.
My cat gave me many of the signs, which in retrospect, I now know meant she was starving for attention. But I thought she was a basically contented cat who just wanted attention. So, even though I was home a lot I just ignored the signs and did my own stuff. In the end, She stopped eating and drinking and was miserable. I thought she was ill and had to have her put down. Now I know she was clinically depressed because I did not give her love and affection or play with her:.
I have learned a lesson the hard way and it breaks my heart. I wish I could turn the clock back. Hi Lori- thank you for sharing your story! Everyone of us learns as we go and can think back to things we would do differently if we had known better- myself included. Cats learn to form attachments and to give and receive affection within the first weeks of life. If a human interacts with a kitten during those crucial weeks, the kitten is likely to enjoy human contact and even relish affection.
Most cats and their human companions have similar needs for affection. Both enjoy being approached for petting or a cuddle.
On the other hand, some companions complain that their cats are too standoffish, not letting them hold them or sit on their laps. But then theres the other group of companions who complain about their cats constant neediness, clinging and crying for attention. However, if your cats behavior becomes too much of a problem, you should consult your veterinarian because there may be a physical cause for excessive affectionate behavior, says Dr.
Senior cats may experience cognitive dysfunction similar to dementia in humans. Another cause of too much attention-seeking goes back to a kitten being taken much too early away from his mother and siblings at around two to three weeks. The result can be a cat suckling for comfort on your clothes, skin or hair. The cat is seeking the comfort she was deprived of by being taken from her mother too soon. Theres not much you can do to stop it, except to remove the cat from you. But the suckling should gradually subside by the time the cat turns one year of age.
Sometimes it comes down to personality. Some cats are more clingy and demanding than others. Some cats will pick out one particular member of the family to follow around, while others will target anyone who is nearby even visitors.
If you or other family members cant put up with it, there are some behavioral tricks you can try. If your cat bunts you with her head or rubs her cheek against you, she's trying to put her "scent" on you and show the world that you belong together. She's transferring pheromones onto your body to mark you as part of her family. Calming diffusers mimic your cat's natural calming pheromones to signal that the area is familiar and safe.
These pheromones can help your cat feel secure, happy, and relaxed. Flopping in front of you and showing his belly is a sign of trust. He may roll in front of you happily or just lie on the ground lazily, belly up. Showing a belly is true vulnerability, and a cat will only do this when he really trusts and loves you.
Some cats will follow their owners from room to room because they love them. They know you're up to something interesting, and they don't want to miss out! Your cat may also choose to sleep near you, even if not necessarily on you. Yes, even the meow can be a sign of love. Cats may develop a " meow language " unique to their owners. It's all a sign of love and camaraderie. If your fur baby grooms or kneads you, that's another sign of love and affection.
Cats groom each other to mix their scents and show trust. They knead to show they are relaxed and content, just like when they were kittens. Both are sure signs of love. You don't need to wonder anymore if cats feel love.
Cats feel so much love in their tiny hearts, they can hardly contain it all.
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